Some incidents that hurt us might change our lives forever...even more so if we have been hurt by someone close to us…
The emotional fools that we are, we continue to bear the pain caused by our close ones; even though we’re been hurt time and again by them and seldom learn our lessons quickly enough – just because we ‘love’ them and are ‘attached’ to them.
How wonderfully painless the world would be if not for these two seemingly pleasant emotions!
It is these emotions which bind us and sometimes even suffocate us; yet we cannot break away and we continue to endure all the pain, for God knows what.
It hurts even more to know that the other person doesn’t care a damn for you or your feelings or your opinions and continues to hurt. Hurt on hurt; pain on pain; this will go on…till we break away…but can we?
If the pain was a choice, we can blame ourselves to an extent. But sometimes it is imposed on us…and we have no other choice but to face it.
I’ve learnt my lesson at last today…through a real eye opener. It has only increased my determination and has hardened me further. I believe I am what I am today due to all that I’ve been through and I’m thankful to life for teaching many important lessons early on...
As quoted by a friend in Orkut (Just when I needed it):
“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending”
3 comments:
True to the core.. !! Its always better not to get attached to anyone and its wise not to expect things from anyone , be it close frnds, or be it our own blood. All the ppl in our lives are bound to hurt us at one point of time or the other..So we have to realize who's worth, the pain or the person.
We just need to live with these not-so-pleasant experiences and move on !!
The blog was touchingly written with heavy emotions.
-Tarun
cent % true dear...1st time i felt like posting a comment...i do read ur blogs but this one is really touching......
A strong post indeed! I miss those days I used to be driven by passion...
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